Remember, we are not "One" in our doctrines or opinions, and I for one don't believe we ever will be. According to the New Testament, our unity is in Christ. Not in our doctrines or theories, but only in Christ are we "One".
"...for you are all one in Christ Jesus." Galatians 3:27-29
If you want to discuss these issues together, do that one-on-one over coffee and don't drag that into the ekklesia. That's my advice.