My name is Keith Giles. I love to write so that people can know Jesus and experience His life in their own. So, I started this blog to help people understand who Jesus is, and how He reveals what the Father is really like. This is a safe place to talk about all those questions you've had about the Bible, and Christianity. It's also a place to learn how to put the words of Jesus into practice.
Showing posts with label house church dynamics. Show all posts
Showing posts with label house church dynamics. Show all posts
Monday, June 06, 2016
[PODCAST SERIES] HOUSE CHURCH 101
HOUSE CHURCH 101 - WHAT IS IT? Is it a bible study? A church that meets in a house Or...something else?
** HOUSE CHURCH 101 - What's It Look Like? If you were to walk into a house church one Sunday morning, what might you experience? Keith shares his own experiences and talks about who should - and who should not -start a house church group in their home.
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* HOUSE CHURCH 101 - WHY IS IT SO HARD? Participating in an Open Meeting is anything but easy. Why is that? Keith talks about the challenges of an open participatory meeting and how followers of Jesus can work together to help the Body to function as Jesus intended.
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* HOUSE CHURCH 101 - LEADERSHIP What does leadership look like in an open meeting? Keith Giles shares his experience in the organic church and outlines what to do, and what not to do, to facilitate a New Testament style church gathering.
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* HOUSE CHURCH 1O1 - FROM PULPIT TO TENT-MAKING How do you transition from a career in the pulpit to a job in the workforce? Keith shares his personal story and provides key insights into what it takes to trust God for everything.
Tuesday, September 01, 2015
HOUSE CHURCH DYNAMICS: ORGANIC CHURCH CONFERENCE
Join Dan Notti, Keith Giles, and Matt and Christa McKirland for a day long conversation about Organic Church.
Date: Saturday, Sept. 19, 2015
COST: FREE!
TIME: 9am to 2pm [everyone brings their own sack lunch]
LOCATION: Fuller Seminary, Irvine [off of Sky Park]
ADDRESS: 17744 Sky Park Cir #150, Irvine, CA 92614
CONTENT:
Relational Dynamics - Guiding principles; Love and trust; Authentic Community, etc. Organizational Dynamics - Leadership; Finances; Accountability; Facilities, etc. Developmental Dynamics - Discipleship; Ministry; Spiritual Gifts; Unity, etc.
FORMAT: Short [15 minute] intro of each topic followed by open dialog by attendees.
WHO'S THIS FOR?
Anyone who is either looking to join and/or start an Organic Church, or anyone who is currently a contributing member of an Organic Church Body.
DON'T MISS IT!
Monday, September 03, 2012
Anatomy of an Open Meeting: What does it look like?
Part 2 - WHAT DOES AN OPEN MEETING LOOK LIKE?
Essentially, what we try to do is to come together and
"take hold of Christ" as a Body. In other words, try to imagine that
your church was sitting together in someone's living room and suddenly Jesus
walks in the door and stands in the center of the room.
Would you guys keep talking to one another about the weather, or sports, or even Bible verses? Hopefully you'd all sit quietly and lean forward to hear what Jesus wanted to say to you. You'd talk to Him, not to each other. You'd meet with Him, not have a meeting about Him while He watched. That's basically what we're trying to do every time we meet.
Now, it might look different each time. And sometimes, honestly, we're better at it than at other times. But, usually our times together go something like this:
Some of us meet about thirty minutes early for prayer before the meeting starts. A brother once noted that an open meeting requires more prayer together, not less. This is because an open meeting is led by the Spirit, not by any one person or persons. Everyone is invited to this prayer time, but no one has to come if they don't want to.
After prayer everyone else shows up for a shared, potluck breakfast together. Eating is an essential ingredient, I believe. It helps us to get to know one another and to be together without being pretentious. It's also how we build community and find out what people are like, what they're going through, etc. Real ministry can take place during the meal times, or we can just laugh together and eat some great food. Either way it's worth the investment of time. Plus, it’s based on the practice of the earliest Christians:
“They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship,
to the breaking of bread and to prayer.” (Acts 2:42)
“They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere
hearts…” (Acts 2:46)
Eventually we'll finish eating and gather around the sofas and set out the communion elements and wait quietly for a while to pray together before we start singing songs. The singing is always suggested by the members of the Body, or anyone in the room. We have a set of worship songs put together in a songbook format, and we also have a set of old Baptist Hymnals. Or someone can bring a CD with a song to share, or they can just start singing a song that they love accappella and either teach it to all of us, or let those who know it join in.
There's lots of flexibility, as you'll notice. We're very conscious of the fact that we're not putting on a show. We're not trying to shush the children or keep to a program. We just try to allow the Holy Spirit to move however He likes and get out of His way.
During the singing time someone might feel led to read a scripture out loud, or to pray for someone else in the group, or to call out to God in thanksgiving and praise. We never know how that might work, but we're open to whatever happens.
I think this can only work if you're with a group of people, a family of believers, that you can trust. You have to know that everyone in that meeting cares for you and loves you. They're not trying to control you or to manipulate you. Over the last six years we've been developing that level of trust together and it's great, really.
Eventually we'll move from the singing and prayer time to "open share time" where everyone (young, old, male, female, visitor, regular, etc.) is free to share with everyone else what God has been teaching them during the week, or to share something that the Lord spoke to them during worship, etc. But not everyone has to share. It's ok to be quiet and listen, too.
Transition from the singing to the open share time is very fluid and sometimes we'll drift back into singing songs again, or spend the whole time praying for one another, or maybe share with one another over a single passage of scripture, or a variety of scriptures if there are a lot of people who have something to share. It varies week to week.
What I really love is when the seemingly random verses and testimonies that each person brings suddenly begin to emerge as a complete teaching on a single topic. Sometimes someone will say, "What is Jesus trying to teach us this morning?" and we'll realize "Oh, it's about letting go and trusting Him" or "It's about forgiveness", and then we'll try to respond to Him and thank Him for teaching us this lesson as a Body.
Our meetings usually run from about 9am for morning prayer to around 1pm or so. Sometimes it goes to 2pm but usually 12:30pm to 1pm. We usually end with Communion together and sing a song before we depart.
Now, even though this is our usual meeting format, what I love about an organic church is that we always have freedom to change things around whenever the Lord directs us to.
In the past, we've had gatherings where everyone creates artwork together, or perhaps we hear a testimony from someone, or sometimes we'll hear a teaching by someone who brings a study on a particular topic or book of the Bible. Sometimes we'll meet in a park together, or spend all of our time in worship and prayer.
Breaking our liturgy and embracing our freedom in Christ to do something different is important to the life of the Body.
One of my favorite times was when we asked the children to lead our meeting. They all sat together and we waited to see what they would do. Then one of them said, "Ok, does anyone have something to share with the group today?"
It was so wonderful because they had learned from us that to lead a meeting is to ask questions and invite others to share. How cool is that?
Next installment, we'll discuss how to lead or facilitate an open meeting.
-kg
[END PART 2]
Friday, August 31, 2012
NEW SERIES: The Anatomy of an Open Meeting
In this new series I want to answer some questions that several people have asked me after reading my latest book, "This Is My Body:Ekklesia As God Intended" which deals mainly with a biblical basis for a New Testament model of gathering together as a Body. However, I did not include any specific details about what an open meeting, (where everyone operates in their gifting without an up-front pastor leading the process), actually looks like, or how to participate or to lead one.
This series will run here on my blog over the next few days, and then I will collect these, along with several other more practical "How To" articles and publish them in an eBook over at Amazon.com under the title of "House Church Dynamics".
For now, let's start by defining what an open meeting actually is:
Part 1: WHAT IS AN OPEN MEETING?
An open meeting is one where everyone in the gathering is
as free as anyone else to speak, or to share, or to teach, or to sing, etc., as
the Holy Spirit leads them.
This sort of meeting is what Paul was describing in 1
Corinthians 12 where he begins by
explaining how various spiritual gifts are distributed throughout the church
and then uses a Body metaphor to describe how these gifts are designed to
function in a practical way.
“There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes
them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are
different kinds of working, but in all
of them and in everyone it is the same God at work.” (1 Cor. 12:4-6;
emphasis mine)
Right off the bat, Paul explains that there are different
kinds of gifts, and also that the purpose of them is to work “in all of them”
(the members of the church) and he emphasizes that “everyone” is expected to
participate. Not only a select few. As he goes on to say in the next verse:
“Now to each one the
manifestation of the Spirit is given for
the common good.” (1 Cor. 12:7)
Here, he re-emphasizes that “each one” is given the
spiritual gift “for the common good” of everyone else in the church gathering.
This tells us that the spiritual gifts are not to edify
or build up the person using the gift, but to lovingly bless and minister to
everyone else in the church fellowship. Therefore, the spiritual gifts are “in
all of them” and “everyone” is gifted to be a blessing “for the common good” of
their brothers and sisters.
Notice that Paul doesn’t say that the manifestations of
the Spirit are given for a select few, or to one man, but to “everyone” and
that “each one” receives a different gift in order to be a gift to everyone
else. This is the groundwork for an open meeting of Christians.
After listing a series of spiritual gifts that might be
given to the members (“Message of wisdom”, “faith”, “gifts of healing”, etc.),
Paul again says:
“All these are the work of one and the same Spirit, and he distributes them to each one, just as he determines.” (1
Cor. 12:11)
Just in case we’ve forgotten, Paul reminds us that “each
one” receives a gift from God in the church in order to facilitate the work of
the Spirit in the church when they gather.
Next, Paul goes on to explain that the Body (which is a
metaphor for how the Church should function), is one, even though it is made up
of many parts. He then takes time to illustrate how the church is designed on
purpose to be a group of very different sorts of people. Not a homogenous
cookie-cutter group of clones, but a gathering of people who are not like one
another. He talks about how those who are “feet” cannot say they are not part
of this body because they are not like the “hands”, and he goes on to stress
that the “eyes” cannot kick out the “hands” because they are different.
Therefore, differences are to be expected – even celebrated – and this is
because the variety is part of what makes us a body of many parts. He closes
the chapter by saying:
“But God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts
that lacked it, so that there should be
no division in the body, but that
its parts should have equal concern for each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is
honored, every part rejoices with it.
“Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.” (1 Cor. 12:24-27)
This is really only the ground work for what an open
meeting of believers should look like. Paul explains how the gifts of the
Spirit are distributed to everyone in the Church using the metaphor of a Body
that is made up of different parts that serve different functions, and he makes
the point that these parts are all essential for the life of the Body.
This means that if you are a follower of Christ, you have
a spiritual gift from God. It means you have a very crucial role to play in the
growth and development of the Church family where you are a member. It means
that you matter. You are important. We need you, and you need all of us.
What I find fascinating is that Paul follows this chapter
about how a gathering of believers can operate like a Body with an entire
chapter on love. He does this twice more in Ephesians 4 and in Romans 12. Every
time Paul talks about spiritual gifts in the Body, the very next thing he talks
about is love. Why? Because the gifts are given in love, and they only work if
we use them out of love to bless the brothers and sisters we love in order to
help them to grow into the image of Christ who is love.
Later, in 1 Corinthians 14, Paul returns to this idea of
how everyone in the Body is expected to operate together for the common good,
saying:
“What then shall we say, brothers and sisters? When you come together, each of you has a hymn, or a word of
instruction, a revelation, a tongue or an interpretation. Everything must be done so that the church may be built up.” (1
Cor. 14:26)
Again, Paul returns to the theme he laid out in chapter
12. The command is, “When you come together, each of you” uses their God-given
gifts for the common good. Why? Because, as Paul goes on to say, this kind of
symbiotic sharing of love and ministry is essential and “must be done so that
the church may be built up.”
This isn’t an optional method for gathering that Paul
outlines for us here. Paul is emphatic that “each one” of us should use our
gifts “for the common good” and that it “must be done” for the “church” to be
“built up”.
You can quickly see how a Pastor-centric church will
never operate in this way as Paul describes. Because with a professional expert
in the room, everyone will always turn to that person and wait for
instructions. But, Paul doesn’t make any room for this aberration. Nor does
anyone else in the New Testament scriptures.
An open meeting embraces Paul’s instructions here and in
other passages to operate as a true body where Christ is the head (Eph. 4:15) –
the only head – and we all “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”
(Eph. 5:21)
In our next article we'll look at what an open meeting looks like in practice.
-kg
[END PART 1]
Wednesday, March 07, 2012
Raising Up Leaders in House Church
Over the last few years I've been corresponding with a brother in Christ, Vilbert Vallance, who lives in India. Recently he emailed me asking for help in raising up leaders within his house church family. As I was sharing it with him I thought it might be beneificial to others who might also want some advice about this.
Vilbert,
What I do in our group is to not do anything, or to do as little as possible. Really, the secret, if there is one, I'd say is to get out of the way and allow the Holy Spirit to do as much as possible. At first our house church always looked to me or to my wife to do everything - answer every Bible question, lead the communion, baptize the people, etc. So, sometimes I would just leave the room during prayer or after worship to let them figure things out together. Other times if someone asked me a question about the Bible I would lean back and say, "I don't know. What do you guys think?" and allow people to discuss this question without my interference. Sometimes I would ask another person, maybe even a child or a teenager, to lead us in communion, or to read a scripture to everyone. You can do this on the spot, or you can ask them ahead of time if they would do this when the time comes. That way you don't have to be the one to ask them but they will just do it because you've already asked them in advance. The hope being that, eventually, they will feel confident to read scriptures on their own and to take initiative when it's time for communion, or prayer, etc.
One thing that really helped our group in this respect is that we are a group of leaders. You may not have that in your group, I realize. If they are all mostly new christians then this will take more discipleship, but as they begin to grow in Christ you can begin to set them free and empower them to do more because they are all priests in God's Kingdom, just like you.
Maybe they don't know the Bible as much as you do, or have as much experience...but then how did you get your experience? Didn't someone allow you to lead? Didn't someone ask you to teach? These are the ways we raise up leaders, by allowing them to serve (not to lead). Because in the Kingdom of God the leaders are the servants of all.
If somone wants to be the leader (or the boss) then do not allow them to do this. If they want to serve, then let them do that because this is what a leader looks like in the Body of Christ. "The greatest among you is the servant of all," Jesus told us. So, everyone has the potential to be great in God's Kingdom because anyone and everyone can serve another person. It does not require skill or wisdom, only humility and love.
Another thing we did in our group was to start meeting in other homes besides ours. This allowed people to take ownership of the church and to see that there was nothing special about my house. Any house can be special because God's people meet there. Even if we meet under a tree, it does not matter. After awhile I would sometimes not even show up to those meetings outside of my house so that they could also learn that they do not need me to have fellowship or to "be the Church". They really don't need me (or you) they just need Jesus and each other. Maybe down the road you can do this with your group as they grow in Christ?
Does any of this help you? Please let me know if I'm not answering your question properly. I do want to help you grow leaders in your group.
Blessings to you as you serve the Lord and His Church.
Peace,
kg
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You can learn many more practical things about house church at MOMENTUM 2012 on March 30 and 31. This practical and interactive gathering will feature plenty of dialog, discussion and hands-on experience with organic church dynamics. Our event will include insights from practitioners like Neil Cole, Ross Rohde, Bill Faris, Ken Eastburn, Joe Chebat, Jeanne O'Hair, Bob Sears and myself. Scott Underwood will lead us in worship. Hope you can be there!
MORE INFO AND REGISTRATION >
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You can learn many more practical things about house church at MOMENTUM 2012 on March 30 and 31. This practical and interactive gathering will feature plenty of dialog, discussion and hands-on experience with organic church dynamics. Our event will include insights from practitioners like Neil Cole, Ross Rohde, Bill Faris, Ken Eastburn, Joe Chebat, Jeanne O'Hair, Bob Sears and myself. Scott Underwood will lead us in worship. Hope you can be there!
MORE INFO AND REGISTRATION >
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