tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9926207.post3379171815904371810..comments2024-03-04T00:50:02.182-08:00Comments on KeithGiles.com: EPISODE 18: "Hard Conversations" - Dan Notti & Keith Giles [Video Podcast]Keith Gileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00328300571647154699noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9926207.post-18461578013796287602015-07-07T09:59:14.939-07:002015-07-07T09:59:14.939-07:00It sounds like Dan's friend has a deeper probl...It sounds like Dan's friend has a deeper problem than just making some bad choices or having a bad attitude. It sounds as though he likely has a sense (perhaps sub-conscious) of not being loved. As I understand it, certain experiences in our past can get into our unconscious mind and make us feel like we're not good enough, not loved, and/or other negative ideas. This could explain his moving back and forth, literally searching for people who make him feel a certain way, and then believing it's the other people's fault when he doesn't feel as he expects. It would also fit that Dan's honest conversation would feel like an attack rather than concern, reinforcing the sense of not being good enough and what not. If this is the case, then some deeper emotional healing is needed. Therapy can potentially help with this. Dan's idea of showing him love without strings attached goes along with this.Doug Websterhttp://www.dl-webster.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9926207.post-91648785599791718252015-07-03T06:13:15.426-07:002015-07-03T06:13:15.426-07:00Volume is much more balanced. Thank you, I will co...Volume is much more balanced. Thank you, I will continue to listen.Jerry Sledgenoreply@blogger.com